This email was in response to me asking about going twice a week and him saying no. It was also about the enormous emotions I have started to feel that come out of nowhere.
<font color="#000088"> It is not my plan or intent to make you suffer out of therapeutic goals or anger at you. I do hear your pain and I appreciate your stating it directly rather than couched in threat or manipulation. The question remains, what is the crisis you face? Your and my relationship is not in danger. Whatever need you feel is one you've carried with you for years and will not destroy you. Be still. As one book on mindfulness is titled, "don't just do something, sit there." The answer to your struggle is not outside you but within. </font>
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