My ex-T abandoned me 3 years ago. I knew I couldn't survive it on my own, so I looked for a new T. First T I saw wasn't the right fit, so after 3 sessions I quit. Then I found current T. The beginning for us was really rough. I didn't trust her after what my ex-T did, and she felt like the bad guy and stuck in the middle of my ex-T and me. But after some time, things finally settled in. I still didn't trust her. Not for about 2 years. But I trusted her enough to keep trying. And I'm glad I did. I've been with her for 3 years now. She has helped me so much. She never judged me for what ex-T did. She plans on being my T until she retires which won't be for a long time.