Perna, I have been thinking and thinking and haven't come up with much to be honest. I almost wish I knew more about therapeutic ways to approach this with her, as it might help. I am certainly open to anything you might have to offer or anything else. It really does pain me to have to ask her to leave, I just feel if she doesn't get it down now what is going to happen when my son is born, you know?

And of course notwithstanding the baby I should be able to have control over my own house and the experiences I have in it, to the best of my ability. She did REALLY well though when she was here today, I did not hear one curse the whole time she was here, and we sat around (didn't end up going for groceries) for some time chatting. I was pleased. I hope that it lasts, but I am still open to suggestions.