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Originally Posted by mostlylurking
So, it's been a bit helpful just to set up the appointment, but I'm worried that if the new T comes across as wondering what I did wrong, I will just be hurt all the more. I already feel like I'm in the wrong somehow, I don't need more scrutiny along the lines of "Yes, what is wrong with you anyway?" It just feels like a huge risk.
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Why do it then? It was the most dysfunctional and degrading thing i have ever done. I let my equilibrium and sense of self be dictated by the strongly biased opinions of a series of strangers whose dictums were baseless in the end. Plus, it perpetuated the core problem... seeking external validation from false gurus.