Granite, that sounds so, so awful.

Granite, PLEASE stop seeing this woman! She does not know how to help you heal your trauma. She is trying to REASON with an activated trauma response and she doesn't even seem to know that this is impossible. She is harming you because of what she doesn't know. She isn't doing it deliberately. She genuinely wants to help you. She just doesn't know that her skill set is inappropriate for your trauma.
Please, please, please find a therapist who is highly trained and experienced in treating trauma. Such a person will be able to help you.