I disagree that you should stop seeing this t. I am sorry you stay away from us. I guess your family has some kind of financial hold on you that makes it impossible for you to break away from them. I am probably projecting - thats the main thing that kept me attached. But thats something my family and i manipulated from both sides.
If it can be made "just" emotional, then i agree with your t, granite. Its your mother or your life.
How can we help?