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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl
I am notorious for blaming myself for everything. My therapist doesn't want me to do that. If the friend won't talk to me it is unhealthy for me to speculate what she may be thinking. I can't fix things if she won't tell me what is wrong.
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I think that I would need more context in my humble opinion for me to decide what I would do, but I am not asking you to divulge more, TheSadGirl.
Based on what you said and your question, maybe, wait a few days (the weekend) as other members have suggested. Then, text her or even call her during her off work hours if you are aware of them. Attempt to be explicit through your words once again about reconnecting with her and even ask if there was/is any past events that might serve as an explanation for the lack of interaction between you two.
If she does not reply or replies with a distant message (oral or verbal,) then, perhaps, just leave the relationship with her as in stop trying. You seem to be reaching out to her, but she does not seem to be reaching back to you.
Please, do not blame yourself.
