hello,
Welcome to PC.
I don't have an answer to your current situation. Maybe ask her if she is willing to participate in couples counseling with you?
I hope you find the information and the support you may be seeking.
Please make yourself at home. Jump in wherever you feel led to do so.
Your first 5 posts are approved by a moderator before they appear. After 5 approved posts, you will also have access to chatrooms and to the Private Messaging (PM) system.
I hope to see you around the forums.

Wild Coyote