Thread: Phone sessions
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Old May 05, 2018, 09:12 AM
Tbhimscared Tbhimscared is offline
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Originally Posted by velcro003 View Post
Well, this is a timely post, as my T decided to tell me tonight that she can't meet me on Monday (due to something she probably should have known/realized last week), and asked if we could talk on the phone on my lunch break this week

I am angry and don't think it will help anyway. I am different when I am on the phone with her (I have talked to her when really upset), than when I am in session, and this shite i am going through isn't really phone-like stuff. UGH. I don't know what to do, bc if I don't do it, I will go a week without talking or seeing her...but i am not sure it will help at all.
I feel the same way! I haven’t talked on the phone with her before but I think I’ll act differently than I would in person and I don’t think the stuff I’m going through right now would be good for a phone conversation. I react more to body language than just words, so I might believe what she’s saying less than if it was in person. And I’m afraid I’ll say something too dark and she might think I’m not safe when I (probably) am.