I absolutely worry about hurting her feelings. I don't confron't people and I try to choose words very carefully with everyone because I don't want to be the cause of someone's hurt feelings. Discuss it with your T. Bring it up in your next session. For me it comes down to the fear of abandonment and a lack of self worth. If I say or do something wrong then they will see how awful/stupid/worthless I am and leave or they will see how hopeless I am and leave because of that.... Figuring out the why has helped a lot, now just to change that thought pattern which in infinitely harder. Lol. Basically, you're not alone and I would definitely bring it up. Good luck!