this keeps bonding from happening also. Always trying to sort out where they are coming from does not create a good environment for a relationship.

Dang, I have a lawyer in my state, a lawyer in the state I was married in & where all our marriage assets in, a RE agent & a cash buyer for the home who can't figure out where in the world my soon-to-be X-H is coming from. Good to know it wasn't JUST me. They have NEVER experienced anyone like him before. He won't communicate with any of them.

You may be experiencing something similar