Suggestion -- just go, and don't have any pre-set goal or agenda. Maybe there will be an amazing counselor who will "get" you. Maybe that will help, maybe not, could be an interesting experience either way.

And, maybe there will be no such person. But maybe you will meet somebody interesting among the other clients.

Or, maybe the whole thing will be a complete waste of time.

But until you get there, you can't know. I understand the wish/need to have a strategy, I tend to look for and do that kind of thing myself. And there don't appear to be any VR or mental health resources for helping (dissociative) people learn how to develop (social) judgment. Very much too bad, very much an oversight, IMO, very much nothing that I know (how) to do about that. Very frustrating.

But -- the social facts are, nevertheless, that as of right now you can't know what things will be like at the DVR. Things are in a superposition over there, as far as you can know at this point.

Can you come back and post here after the first day? You'll have more information then, so maybe more to work with in terms of strategy-making?