By default, I don't worry about Ts feelings. One of my kept shoving them to my face though when I challenged him and he was upset. That did not make me worry about him either, just very irritated.

With the other, I liked the guy and wanted to be respectful and polite because he was so as well. I did not worry though when I decided to quit therapy and said so via email after he tried to convince me not to stop in a session.