I did for 20 or so years because also of the DID causing abuse...with the bipolar....I was on another world. But
I’ve reconnected with my nonhateful siblings (let the haters hate...on their own) and mother whom I can forgive because she’s a simpleton. My father though....grrrrr.

I told him my DID condition and to look it up and not talked to him since years ago.

Family is family and they are people too. Nothing in the rulebook says that I have to put up with another’s b.s. before my own mental stability and sanity. You first girl....everyone else can take a flying leap.