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Originally Posted by granite1
it was confusing with her raising her voice and all .but she was crying because she wanted to help me and didnt know how to reach me and she doesnt want me to keep killing myself. she said she cares about me and it is breaking her heart . she has not expressed ever how much she cares about me . i know a lot of clients get upset because T wont say they care about them . to me it was never a big deal . but she was so upset about everything . she must care .
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She cares. She really does care. She really wants to help you. She has worked with you for several years now and she genuinely wants to help you heal. She wouldn't have cried if she didn't care. (At the same time Ts can care very deeply about a client without crying.)
She wants the best for you.
Also, I wonder if her tears are expressing her frustration at herself for not being able to help you
better. She so much wants to help you more than she is.