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Old May 07, 2018, 04:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Unavailableartist View Post
I don't think depressed people usually attracts anyone worth having most of the time.

I think passion, and driven people usually attract people romantically from what I've seen. After all USUALLY successful/optimistic partners make the best cheerleaders, and in my experience when you feel loved for who you are by someone other than family they have a tendency to inspire you work harder at your goals. Not for them of course, but because everything you aspire to be feels right.
As someone who has experienced some level of depression for their whole life so far, I'd have to disagree there - while it doesn't make things any easier, a passionate/driven person can also be (and in history, often have been) depressed as well...
Thanks for this!
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