There is a foundational core belief that for me is non-negotiable that for me only a feeling of love & respect can grow out of.

I need someone who is very capable of communicating & just having the same level of education was proved not to guarantee that (33 years of dealing with that) but in most normal cases this can help.

Honestly I think like seesaw, if they are hard workers no matter what the field & at this point in my life though I am at retirement age.....but it wiukd have to be someone as active in retirement as I am....& at this point....NO DRAMA allowed. Anyone bringing drama into my life & I'm outta there.

I have established my own peacwful life over my last 11 years not living with my H 2100 miles away on my awesome little farm retreat. Not about to give that up & could never live in the city again...so someone would have to be very awesome to ever pull me away from this life I have established after 33 years in a bad marriage.