I have sympathy for him to a degree. I have anger issues too, but I know that they are off base and irrational and I try to control them. I don't try to validate them in any way shape or form and I know that it is not appropriate. However, I feel like he is manipulating me and using that to absolve himself of his own issues. I wanted medication for it, and went on it only to have him promptly break up with me for a while because I was a "drug addict". Stupidly I stopped taking them because I missed him.

It irritates me, because he makes me out to be this lying and manipulative monster who is trying to get him intro trouble all of the time etc. I work with and come into contact with real drug addicted women who lie about their partners and make false accusations. He would go absolutely bonkers having to deal with someone who truly behaved the way he makes it out that I behave. Just recently a girl with no job, a small baby, and on several different drugs filed false charges against her BF to try to obtain custody of her kid.

Me who was on medication to control a diagnosed psychological problem who works fulltime, supports myself, etc...I am the one who would try to steal away a baby, make up stories to get him arrested...just a bunch of utter crap. He wouldn't know what to do with himself if he was with a person with a real drug addiction who really does file false charges.