Hello I am new to this site and although i do not have a diagnosis yet i have done a bit of research about BPD and i seem to fit the description like a glove. The only thing that does not apply is the self hard and suicidal aspect. But this would explain why i have always had an issue with relationships and i haven't had a solid one that lasted longer then a few months in quite some time now. I am hoping being here i will be able to get some answers and as soon as i am diagnosed i can start the path to a somewhat normal life.