I hear Viagra can work for females too. Sexual frustration isn't fun. It's a human need for the average person. Are you on an SSRI or an AP that is blocking your sex drive? I've heard success stories with adding Wellbutrin, or switching from an SSRI to an SNRI like Effexor or Cymbalta. Some AP's are more friendly in that area too like Latuda, Abilify, Rexulti, and Geodon.