No worries.
The thing about the solution is not the particular situation--it's the
Method. Look at your own situation and apply the Method. Use
logic to find the easiest and most beneficial solution for YOU.
Does it make more sense now?
Also, I found a fabulous organization and cleaning site called 'A Bowlful of Lemons.' Lots of great suggestions.
One thing I really like about you is that you don't give up. I know how dark it looks for you lately, but your courage keeps on shining through.
Keep it up!
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"The life unexamined is not worth living." Plato
"The arc of the universe is long but it bends toward justice." Dr. Martin Luther King

To Bambi, "You can call me Flower if you want to."