Fluff, I have read your last post a couple of times. I am left wondering what your t. said when you asked him if he knew how fragile you are and how bad you have been feeling? Also, when you told him directly that what you needed right now was support not growth, what was his response?

I am really trying to get a handle on how you are feeling. I DO understand the part about having times when the support takes precedence over everything else. There are appropriate times for learning and growth and alternately there are times when supportive therapy is what is called for. It sounds like you have made it very clear to him what you are needing for now. Your needs do NOT sound outrageous or unreasonable to me.

I am thinking of you and really hoping that he is "getting" what is happening to you.

tulips