Please help me out. I’ve been trying to find out the facts on this but am having great difficulty. Question: Does a women have to have “ hormones” to want to be affectionate, cuddly, and wanting to please her partner sexually even though she has no physical desire to do anything sexual. Facts : She had a disease that destroyed her hormones. She had a total hysterectomy. She will not take any hormone replacement therapy of any kind for fear of the disease relapsing.
I’m the kind of guy that needs some physical and emotional attachment.
I’m getting neither. She’s a good mate in many ways except for that. Now I understand the physical limitations. I remember when I had a problem on my end. Don’t know if she went “ out” on me then. I haven’t cheated and don’t want to but I’m dying inside for this physical connection. We are in our 60’s , not 90’s.
At a much older age I’m sure this would not be an important issue.
So , does a women need feminine hormones to want to , hold hands , kiss , cuddle , or/and want to please me sexually even though she’s not interested.
Help ! The whole relationship could hinge on this issue. Should I just let it go ?
Thanks.....