You don't mention what the rejection was about. Is it something that falls in the professional roles of a T, that he is supposed to do for your money, or outside of that range? If outside, and it's a repeated event, I personally don't think it's worth pushing and discussing with him - it may just deepen your hurt to revive it over and over again. Perhaps learning to tolerate such limitations and self-soothing over it might be more progressive? Of course if he is rejecting to do something that's supposed to be his normal professional duty, it's a different scenario - that I would definitely mention and would not overlook.