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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
Please help me out. I’ve been trying to find out the facts on this but am having great difficulty. Question: Does a women have to have “ hormones” to want to be affectionate, cuddly, and wanting to please her partner sexually even though she has no physical desire to do anything sexual. Facts : She had a disease that destroyed her hormones. She had a total hysterectomy. She will not take any hormone replacement therapy of any kind for fear of the disease relapsing.
I’m the kind of guy that needs some physical and emotional attachment.
I’m getting neither. She’s a good mate in many ways except for that. Now I understand the physical limitations. I remember when I had a problem on my end. Don’t know if she went “ out” on me then. I haven’t cheated and don’t want to but I’m dying inside for this physical connection. We are in our 60’s , not 90’s.
At a much older age I’m sure this would not be an important issue.
So , does a women need feminine hormones to want to , hold hands , kiss , cuddle , or/and want to please me sexually even though she’s not interested.
Help ! The whole relationship could hinge on this issue. Should I just let it go ?
Thanks.....
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hormones are not necessary for showing affection (caring about someone, showing how much you care about someone by hand holding, cuddling, kissing...) even newborn babies and children who have not gone through puberty are able to show affection.... hold hands, cuddle and give kisses.
that said hormones do in some people take care of things like being sexually active, having an interest in sex, helping a woman be more physically ready for the intimacy. short version hormones do things like make a person grow, matabolizes food, and work the reproductive organs. example without hormones some people stay short, without hormones some people have to live on special diets, with out hormones some people cant have children. but without then a person can still cuddle, hold hands and have sex.