I kinda have fears of what things will be like when I have to go back to Calif to settle our marriage assets through Calif courts because he refused to respond to my KY lawyer. Things will get nasty though because he let the house go into forclosure & refused to follow through with the loan modification, refused to talk to the RE agent I contacted there & has refused to even talk with the cash buyer. Foreclosure sale will be in July. Calif lawyer is going to go after him in an emergency court hearing & get him evicted so the house can be sold.

It has taken me 11 years to stop seeing red every time I have to deal with him so I keep hoping when I have to go out there soon that I can keep it together & be as civil as I have come to be over the last 11 years. Who knows how they will trigger when it comes rught down to it.

Sorry you are struggling.

Thought of you every day I took BG parkway to the horse park the last 2 weeks of April. I'm on the crew that does the floral work for the eventing show at the horse park. Rain & freezing weather, early mornings & late nights..takes me time to recooperate & didn't have time with all the legal stuff last week....know that emotional & physical exhaustion too