^ Due to my insurance issues, I NEED to stay with him or within his company to get the very cheap rate I currently have, so my only choices would be his boss or the other male T in the company, I would never be able to talk to either of them about him. They have seen me on on walks with him etc, so they know I see him as a client.

Sorry you had a ****** ex and I'm glad you were able to free yourself, I am one of those that I doubt I ever could, I've dealt with my mom;s abuse for over 30 years and I still see her every day and wont tell anyone about the things that go on in the family because of her. It might make me a bad person but I just can't change that part of me, sadly.