I let them down, they let me down. It cancels out in my mind so no... I mean maybe if my dad brought me to the hospital when I passed out in front of him after hitting my head I wouldn't have as many problems, maybe if my mom didn't do drugs before I was born I'd be better off. Maybe if we moved or involved the police when I was being abused I wouldn't be so messed up.

Honestly at this point they're just dealing with consequences of their actions or inactions. It's not like me not curing cancer or proving string theory is ruining their lives.