Thank you everyone. Right now the hardest part is finding time to be alone. I have an aunt staying with me and there are so many things to do. We have the service TOMORROW!!! There is too much to do and not enough time. We are running around like chickens with our heads cut off.
I have another Aunt flying in today that I have to pick up and she is going to stay with us. We got the obit done, but I don't know if it is good enough. My step-dad wouldn't read it, but wanted to make sure there were some things said and I just don't know if it is exactly what he wants. We are trying to pick out pictures, but mom didn't take many when she was younger and the only good ones we have are of her without hair (from chemo) and he won't let us use any "sick" pictures even though she looks the happiest in them.
My boyfriend has cooked us breakfast and dinner yesterday, so that is a wonderful support because otherwise I don't know if I'd have eaten.
Again, Thanks for all your thoughts, wishes and experiences because it all helps!