Hey AAAA, I just posted the definition responding to esthervirtues post on page 1 hoping it would clarify

the situation a little better. Thats definetly a good Question?

If its atleast 5 well shoot that puts me in the running too i
guess? Who Knows?

Since I'm a survivor of abuse I really don't know how to answer
that one, I still deal with many issues myself, and it took me

like 40 years just to get to this point in my life where i'm actually recognizing it and getting some closure.

Maybe someone else out there would like to give their opinion
also.....