Hey, Fuzzy, I mean even relationships in real life go up and downs. People in love would argue even fight, working partners would disagree with company strategies, family members get upset with each other and not talk to each other for a while........ happen everyday, everywhere. Remember this forum is a virtual place created for free talking (of course there are limitations on topics, well, I think it's necessary). We are people who need help on our issues, and everyone here is sharing, we had different lives, different experiences before we came here, we are spilling out our pain. On this perspective, I think everyone knows how important to be non-judgemental to one another. You never sound hursh to me, even you do, I understand. So, don't worry too much about this. Just like how much I want to be accepted, I will need to give same amount of acceptance to others, right? I see people here are all very nice, yes, we have problems, but who doesn't? I just feel we are lucky in a way because we have come to realization that we are not perfect, we have flaws, we are mentally imcomplete (so what?)... but we ARE TRYING, we ARE SEEKING HELP to get out and make our lives better. This gives a more significant meaning of our existences. Don't you think so?

I'm very proud of everyone here....... (((((((( Fuzzy)))))))))
((((((((((((more group hugs)))))))))))))))))

Best,
Toni

[i] What our mind can conceive and believe, it will achieve.