I hope my reply helps you find some closure to this incident in your life. If I read what you wrote correctly, you dated a 50 year old woman with a 2 year old child. The woman is a drug addict and she conned you financially. What might help you achieve some closure is to call your insurance company and tell them that the iPhone was not stolen, but a gift you made to this woman. Let the insurance company decide how they want to proceed. Then you might consider contacting the dating website and telling them what you experienced. And lastly and most importantly, you can call your local county childrens social service agency and say you question the safety of a 2 almost 3 year old child with someone who is abusing drugs and exposing the child to men who might not be safe for the child to be around (I don't mean you; this con artist was and is probably working several men all at the same time.)