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Old May 10, 2018, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
with all due respect I dont' think this entire situation is based on her body image/self image at all. This situation can happen to women/men of all shapes and sizes and related self image issues.
I actually based it on the OP's self evaluation, "I don’t know if it’s because I’m over weight, ugly or what?"

I think when a person ventures this kind of guess in such strong terms ("ugly'), it has to be taken seriously.

Of course, reviewing the situation before getting into it (a quesion "have you ever been married?" does it without being too direct) is very valuable.