I think you have to go back to how you started to increase communication, ask questions a different way. Play association word games get folks too know new people putting yourselves out there in society videos is a good way. Asking inside what is happening is also a good idea. Leaders are a good way to requeest information find out what they have been reading into. Mine we're admaant at several replies from each like a rollerdexing because they were desperate at getting things out like data dumping in the beginning. It can indicate crisis's I've read, but if you experienced therapy abuse then it is the first choice before you get to therapist that can unravel if that is indeed possible.