So I've always wondered about this but have never had the nerve to ask anyone so here it goes...

Does everyone occasionally fantasize about being the opposite gender? Does the fact that I sometimes wish I'd been born female make me a closet transsexual? Do other people get excited by imagining what sex is like for the opposite gender? Do other people wish they could experience sex as the opposite gender? Do other people get a bit jealous of the opposite gender's strengths/assets?

I've had these thoughts for as long as I can remember and I've wondered what it says about me. Sometimes I think it's normal and everyone thinks that. Other times I think it's a result of being molested by males as a child. On occasion I've wondered if I'm experiencing some version of the "woman in a man's body" thing but without any serious intention of doing anything about it.

So please, if you're able, share your thoughts and/or experiences.

And yeah, I need to go into this in therapy but for now I'm curious what other people think.

Cyran0