Absolutely getting good advice. Since I initially posted this I have made the decision the roomate deal will not happen. I will allow her to come clean every so often, other than that.... strictly employee/employer relationship. Another thing, I am about 16 years older than this girl and why she would be sending texts in flirting manner is beyond me.

Anyway, I appreciate everyones insight. I knew it wouldn’t be a good idea at the same time I still like to run things by others just to see how they see it from the outside and for a different perspective. Thanks!