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Originally Posted by SadMom69
But would you rather have had your 24-year-old brother be diagnosed with cancer and have a miserable, lingering death just so you could say goodbye? Or have had the car crash result in him being massively injured and lingering in a painful state for months or years so that you had the chance to say goodbye? I doubt that you would have wanted that for either of you.
Maybe if you can look at it that way, it will help you deal with the loss.
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Daisy is only discussing mourning the tragic loss of her brother at such a young age, and missing having him in her life going forward.
This line of questioning is irrelevant to anything she said and frankly seems to be designed to inflict shame or guilt, which is not going to help the grief process at all.