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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
My T reassures me all the time that she's there, she's not going to abandon me, and she's not going to do what ex-T did. I believe it when she says it, but as time goes on, I start to doubt it and need reassurance again. I feel bad for my T, that my mistrust in ex-T still affects our relationship.
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I understand. Ex-MC didn't technically abandon me, but he really hurt me. And it's making it harder to trust current T. Like things have been going really well with him lately--he's seemed really supportive and caring. Part of me feels good about that, but then the other part just keeps thinking it's only a matter of time before he hurts me, too. So I want reassurance, but then I worry that regularly asking for reassurance will annoy him and mess things up. May be talking about some of this with him today...