Depends... What do you want to do for yourself vs with the family?

My mom likes to go out with my sister to get her nails done, for example. (Takes about 1 hr.) Then with my dad, she watches a movie with him. (Takes about 2 hrs.) My turn is just hanging out and walking around somewhere (trail, mall, whatever) just to have 1-on-1 time. (Takes about 2 hrs.) Then as a family, we invite everyone over for dinner. My grandma and my sister's boyfriend, and relatives if they're going to visit.