I love my t. She has been a lifesaver for me so many times but lately I notice that she pushes me a lot more.
In particular around reporting my abuser. This is not something I ever wish to and have told her that repeatedly.
It’s one of the main reasons I joined this forum because I would like some support and guidance.

My t feels that I am responsible if he goes on to abuse anyone else. I have said that’s unlikely as he is old and frail now and almost disabled.
It’s very confusing for me because I hate him but I don’t want to report him.