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Originally Posted by maybeblue
I don't think it is her choice if you report him or not. Nor do I think anyone other than the abuser himself is responsible for his behavior in the future. Have you talked to your therapist about why you don't want to report him? You shouldn't have to justify your decision, but I'm curious if that would help her to understand that you have considered it, and have decided not to.
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We talked about it many times at the start and it is only coming up again recently.
We discussed reasons before and one being he is my best friends father. I couldn’t do that to her after all these years. My t doesn’t understand my loyalty and says my healing is more important.
I agree that the abuser is responsible for his actions and only him. We have had many arguments about this.