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MzJelloFluff said:
T said last time that because i felt so weakened.. maybe i should shoot for the status quo, just to make it through.. but the optimal goal is to tell H it is over, no going back.

That is why i need support and not lessons in growth.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I had to do accomplish enormous growth in therapy before I was ready to tell H it is over. The status quo went on forever for me, but therapy helped me grow enough to end it. Support was not enough for me to end it. I don't mean that to be discouraging, JelloFluff. I hope you can get what you need in therapy in order to move forward.