I think it's a bit of classic projection to refashion this into thinking the T has some issue with clients' attachments. The very act of asking for a TO would reflect that it's the client who struggles with attachment. And then to further obsess about the 10%, rather than recognize the 90%, well? Why not accept that, rather than speculate that he has some sort of discomfort or lack of awareness? And to then reverse speculate about what that says about his view of you? LT, you do seem to drive yourself down the rabbit hole. Hashing that all out in the moment with him could be valuable, but gnashing on it outside of the moment--is that helpful to you? Reading it just feels to me like a runaway train of escalating thoughts that wouldn't be productive.