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Old May 11, 2018, 11:25 PM
Eleny Eleny is offline
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Location: Europe
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I met someone whilst travelling who had tried to commit suicide, I am naturally caring so did my best to help him and in doing so developed feelings for him. We are now living together and he is extremely dependent on me. He has no friends of his own and gets upset if I want to spend time with mine. He does not work but instead waits at home for me to finish work. I feel he has made me his everything but I am now starting to want to leave what I feel is a toxic relationship. I’m tired and feel sad all the time. His self esteem is so low that anything I say to him is taken up completely wrong and he then gets depressed. I want to leave but I’m terrified of what will happen to him because I am all he has. The slightest thing I say can send him into a spiral of depression so what will happen when I leave?? I’ve encouraged him to go home to his family but he won’t. I’ve also encouraged him to go to therapy but he won’t. It’s like a nightmare and I don’t know what to do.
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