Plus, you never know who you are messing with. The day after my
beloved cat died I was in the grocery store. Went to get in line and there was a cart just packed but no one was there. I had three or four things in my hand so I went around the cart and as the shopper returned, she
made a smart as comment.
Wrong move.
My alters were still out and the scary one went off on her. All conversation stopped. The manager came over but shut up when
that laser anger focused on him. That alter could have easily killed
that woman. Thank God I didn't have a weapon that day.
So you just never know.
Someone can be in full melt down mode, ready to explode with grief
and rage. You misread the signals, make a comment about something
and end up getting your as kicked.