I absolutely understand why you don't want to report. I believe it would cause only pain and problems to you, while not protecting any potential victims since they probably don't exist.
If needed, tell your t if she doesn't stop pushing you'll quit. That should sound seriously enough that she'll get it.
Please don't feel unsafe. People here are generally very kind and want to help. There might be some inaccurate conceptions but it's not because people are stalking, they just tried to provide info that would be helpful in your case. I strongly believe there was no evil intention, just a misunderstanding.