View Single Post
 
Old May 12, 2018, 10:09 AM
Anonymous40643
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I’d be very concerned about hearing voices as it appears medication isn’t working, it might need to be adjusted or changed. I’d talk to a therapist about getting to see pdoc or I’d talk to my regular GP. It has to be scary and frustrating but I don’t think need to just put up with it. Medical attention might be needed ASAP.

I’d stop worrying about his toe though. I am not saying you shouldn’t be supportive but this seems to be blown out of proportion.

It’s concerning that if broken toe causes such barrage of issues and effects your relationship, what would happen if something medically serious happened to one of you if both?

He is a grown man. If he wants to go to work sick and can’t say no and is afraid to get fired, then it is what it is. I am not saying stop showing concerns but life doesn’t stop because he broke his toe. If he goes to work today, go do something else. If he wants to buy tickets, he can buy tickets but you don’t have to go if you think it’s stupid. Or maybe he’d feel better. It’s not like money for tickets come out of your joined budget and you are effected by it. He wants to waste it, he can go ahead.

If broken toe is too much to handle I’d be concerned about future of this relationship. What does your t say? About voices and am other things?

Don’t let his toe take away from burning concerns: hearing voices and not having pdoc (perhaps not having health insurance?)
It's not getting blown out of proportion -- he is in severe pain and sheer agony. And yes, it is effecting our relationship in a couple ways -- it's not a barrage of issues -- no. We only had a tough morning because of the issues it caused. It is not a tragedy and it is not life or death - no. It is a very unfortunate accident, and yes, it effects us both.

He is strong, I know this, and is a real trooper for going to work. But it was his choice, the career that he chose.

I know we could handle much bigger challenges together, if faced with that. I am not worried about that.

Yes, I will talk to my doctor about the voices, and maybe about increasing my dosage. It is my primary care doctor that I would need to see since I don't have a pdoc. She may insist that I get one and may not want to mess with the dosages herself. That is my guess.
Hugs from:
RainyDay107