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Old May 12, 2018, 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Thanks. I just used to believe that of ex-MC--he didn't terminate me, but still really hurt me. And I feel he had a much higher threshold/tolerance for transference and attachment than current T--or at least he was more used to dealing with it. I'm just worried that T feels trapped, that he doesn't want to keep working with me, yet feels obligated to. Even though...when we're in session, I don't get the sense he feels that way. He seems to like talking to me (he didn't even realize when we went 5 minutes over yesterday till I pointed it out). I'm just scared because of the ex-MC stuff...And it's like I don't see why T would want to put up with me, when I have trouble putting up with myself...
LT I feel like I could have written parts of your post. For now until you can see him trust what you feel, not the voices of fears playing in your head. From what you've posted about Dr T I honestly he comes through on this. But whatever happens know that you are strong enough to get through anything.

Thanks for this!
LonesomeTonight