Rose , my heart goes out to you It’s sickening how they all come out of the woodwork when the end could be near. You just do what you can to ease your bf’s pain. You just do what you can to ease your own pain. This is going to be a very rough time. You tell all the leeches and bu******* artists to just do what they want but pay them no mind. If your bf’s wishes are to see them than I guess you should honor those wishes. Just don’t bother with them yourself if you can avoid them.
When my time comes and it’s not quick , all the people that never bothered to see me during my life ,so called family , will surely not see me when I’m sick or dying. I’ll make sure of that. May God grant you the strength......