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Old May 13, 2018, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by seesaw View Post
So...again...met guy on dating site.

I really like him by our initial chats and short phone conversation. It's been just enough to get a feeling for each other and see if we want to meet. He's divorced, two kids, that he is very active with, he has them every other weekend. Plus he owns and runs a fair size land development business. We had initially planned to go out not last night but the Saturday before, but we both got sidelined by illness. His was worse than mine, I was just under the weather. He had some back injury and a cold.

Texting to try and meet sort of dropped off. This weekend he had to head out of state to take a broken tool to the manufacturer to get repaired (it's 8 hours away and much faster for him to drive it up and back than to ship it).

I would like to nail down at least a coffee date and see if there's anything here or if this is just going to be ongoing texts. I feel like it's just been a little bit of bad timing for us both, as we are both very busy (which I kind of like about him, like he won't be smothering me, but he's also been good about responding to my texts).

I dunno, I'm just not sure his level of interest. And if I should just cut this loose or still try to meet.

Any thoughts?

Seesaw
Not sure why you need to cut him lose yet. Do you have a feeling l like he's not interested? It does sound like you're both quite busy, and I also think there's nothing wrong with asking him to get coffee on a certain date. If he shies away from that, I'd then say cut loose. But go with your gut first and foremost.
edit: Ah, ok missed the part about his texts dwindling and possible lack of interest. If you're into him and want to find out what's up, I'd just ask. Or move on. Either way.